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What You Need for Any Messy Bun
- Hair elastics (2–3): Fabric-covered or spiral elastics cause less breakage than regular rubber bands. Always have a spare.
- Bobby pins (8–12 matching your hair colour): Cross two pins in an X — this holds three times more hair than a single straight pin.
- Texturizing spray or dry shampoo: Applied before styling, this gives your hair the grip it needs to hold the bun in place without constant re-doing. Day-two hair (slightly unwashed) actually works better than freshly washed.
- A fine-tooth comb or brush: For the sections that need smoothing — the ponytail base.
- Optional — light-hold hairspray: One pass from 14 inches away once the style is set seals flyaways without stiffness.
7 Messy Bun Styles — Step by Step
The original and the most-reached-for version. High on the head, loose and relaxed, works on every hair type. This is the one you'll use 80% of the time.
- 1Spray texturizing spray through dry hairThis gives your hair grip so the bun doesn't slide down within an hour. Focus on the mid-lengths and roots.2Gather into a high ponytail — but don't pull the ends all the way through on the last loopOn the final pass of the elastic, pull the hair halfway through to create a loop. This loop becomes the bun shape.3Fan the loop outward and secure with the elasticSpread the loop evenly around the base. Wrap the elastic one more time over the spread hair to hold everything in place.4Pin any pieces that escape, then pull out intentional onesTuck in any messy sections with criss-crossed bobby pins. Then deliberately pull out 2–3 pieces at the temples and one or two at the nape. One pass of light hairspray to finish.2Low Messy BunBest for: All hair lengths · Difficulty: ⭐ Easy · Time: 3 minutes
The low bun sits at the nape of the neck and reads as significantly more elegant than the high bun — perfect for occasions where the high bun would look too casual. It also works better on shorter hair that won't stay up in a high position.
- 1Gather all hair into a low ponytail at the napeSmooth the top section with a brush for a slightly more polished look, or leave it with natural texture for a more relaxed feel. Both are correct — it depends on the occasion.2Twist the ponytail once and coil it around the baseTwist the length clockwise, then wrap it around the elastic base in a circular motion, tucking the ends underneath.3Secure with criss-crossed bobby pins placed throughoutDon't just pin around the perimeter — push pins through the bun into the base hair. This is what makes the difference between a bun that holds and one that falls apart.4Loosen slightly with fingertips and set with hairsprayPress your thumbs gently into the bun to create soft volume. Pull out two temple pieces and a nape piece for the intentional undone look.3Messy Bun for Short HairBest for: Bob & lob length · Difficulty: ⭐⭐ Medium · Time: 5 minutes
Short hair creates a smaller, tighter bun — which actually looks chic rather than unfinished when it's done correctly. The trick is in the prep work and the use of bobby pins to fold shorter sections into the style.
- 1Apply texturizing spray generously — this is more important for short hairShort hair has less weight to hold itself in place. Texturizing spray is what gives it the grip to stay. Spray throughout and scrunch lightly.2Gather into the lowest ponytail your length allowsFor bob-length hair, this will be at or just above the nape. For lob length, you can go slightly higher. Secure with an elastic — it will be a small ponytail, and that's correct.3Twist and fold the ponytail up and over the elasticRather than wrapping around, fold the short length up toward the crown and pin flat against the head with 4–6 bobby pins. This creates the bun shape that wrapping won't achieve on shorter lengths.4Tuck any escaping ends and release face-framing piecesShort buns will have more escaping ends than long ones — this is normal and part of the look. Release the pieces naturally framing your face and curl them loosely with a small barrel wand if desired.4Half-Up Messy BunBest for: Long & medium hair · Difficulty: ⭐ Easy · Time: 2 minutes
The half-up bun is having a moment — and rightly so. It has the casual ease of a full bun while leaving the length of your hair visible. It's the most popular everyday option for women with long hair who want something more than a loose style but can't commit to a full updo.
- 1Section off the top half of your hair — from temple to templeUse your thumbs as a guide: place them at your temples and sweep the section back to create a natural horizontal division. Everything above the line goes up; everything below stays down.2Create a small high ponytail with the top section onlyPull the hair halfway through on the last wrap of the elastic — same technique as the full classic bun — to create a loop at the crown.3Fan and pin the loop, leaving the lower section completely looseThe contrast between the structured mini-bun at the crown and the loose length falling below is what makes this style work. Don't touch the lower section — it needs to look effortless.4Add a wave to the loose section (optional but recommended)A few loose curls through the hanging length with a 1.5" barrel wand lifts the whole look. It takes 3 minutes and makes the difference between "I put this up in the car" and "I styled this."5French Braid into Messy BunBest for: Long hair · Difficulty: ⭐⭐⭐ Moderate · Time: 10 minutes
This is the style that looks like it took a professional to do it — and once you know the French braid, it's entirely DIY. The braid anchors the top section of hair to the scalp (no slipping, no fly-aways), while the bun controls the length. Watch the French Braid Tutorial above before attempting this one.
- 1French braid from the crown, incorporating all scalp hair, down to the napePick up sections from both sides as you work downward. Keep tension consistent — too loose and the braid will slip; too tight and it pulls. Watch the French braid tutorial linked above for the full technique.2Secure the braid at the nape with an elastic and continue as a regular 3-strand braid for 2–3 more inchesYou need a little extra length beyond the scalp braid to have something to coil into the bun. Don't stop the braid right at the scalp hair — continue a few inches further.3Coil the remaining braid (and any remaining loose length) into a bun at the napeWrap the remaining braid and length clockwise into a low bun. The braid texture in the coiled bun looks beautiful and deliberate — this is the detail that makes the whole style.4Pin thoroughly and gently pancake the braid for widthWith the bun secure, go back to the braid and gently tug each loop outward to widen it — this is called pancaking and makes a thin braid look full and luxurious. Secure with hairspray.Learn the foundation first: The full French Braid Tutorial is available at boysandgirlshairstyles.com/french-braid-tutorial — and in the video above.6Space Buns (Double Messy Buns)Best for: Long & medium hair · Difficulty: ⭐ Easy · Time: 5 minutes
Two equal buns placed symmetrically on either side of the head — playful, geometric, and having a genuine fashion moment. The technique is just two classic buns done back-to-back, one on each side.
- 1Create a perfectly centred part from forehead to napeUse the fine-tooth end of a comb for a clean, straight part. The symmetry of the part directly determines the symmetry of the space buns — this step is worth taking your time on.2Clip one side out of the way and create the first high ponytailWork on one side at a time. Position the ponytail at the top of the head, slightly back from the temple — the exact position determines where the bun sits, so choose intentionally.3Use the classic bun technique on this ponytail, then repeat exactly on the other sidePull halfway through on the last elastic loop, fan outward, secure. Then unclip the second half and repeat. Use the first bun as your size and position reference for the second one.4Check symmetry from the front and adjust before finishingHold up a mirror and look directly at your reflection. If one bun is higher or larger than the other, adjust now with pins before the hairspray sets. Two passes of light spray to finish.7Bow BunBest for: Medium & long hair · Difficulty: ⭐⭐ Medium · Time: 5 minutes
A bow-shaped bun made entirely from your own hair — no accessories required. It looks intricate and planned, and it's significantly easier than it appears. This is the style that gets the most comments of "how did you do that?"
- 1Create a high ponytail and pull halfway through on the last loop — same as the classic bun startThe loop you create is what becomes the bow. Slightly larger loops create more dramatic bow "wings" — consider the final size you want as you set this initial loop.2Split the loop into two equal halvesUse both thumbs to divide the loop cleanly down the middle. Each half becomes one wing of the bow. Keep them separated — don't let them merge back together.3Pull the hanging tail up and over the centre of the two halvesTake the remaining length hanging below the elastic and bring it up and over the gap between the two wings. This is the "knot" of the bow. Pull firmly downward and secure with an elastic or a pin at the back.4Adjust each wing to equal size and pin underneathEach bow wing can be gently tugged outward to add volume. Pin the underside of each wing flat against the head. Finish with hairspray — the bow needs it more than any other style here.
Quick Reference: Which Bun for Which Occasion
Occasion Best bun style Why it works School run / errands Classic High Bun (Style 1) Fastest, most forgiving, works on unwashed hair Office / work Low Messy Bun (Style 2) Reads as polished and intentional rather than rushed Workout / sport Classic High Bun or Double Space Buns High placement keeps hair fully away from the face Casual date / dinner Half-Up Bun (Style 4) + waves below Shows off length while still being styled Wedding / formal event French Braid into Bun (Style 5) Looks salon-finished, holds all day without touch-ups Festival / casual event Space Buns (Style 6) or Bow Bun (Style 7) Statement styles that photograph brilliantly Short bob hair Short Hair Bun (Style 3) The only style designed for this length — works within the constraints Troubleshooting Common Messy Bun Problems
❌ My bun falls down within an hourYou're working with freshly washed, product-free hair. Solution: dry shampoo or texturizing spray before styling. Day-two hair holds buns significantly better than clean hair — this is not a workaround, it's the professional approach.❌ My bun looks lumpy, not roundSections of the ponytail are folding on top of each other rather than fanning evenly. Before pinning, take 10 seconds to spread the loop into an even circle — this single step fixes the lump problem for most people.❌ My bun looks tiny / thinAfter pinning, use both thumbs to gently press into the bun from opposite sides — this compresses and widens it simultaneously. You can also pin some of the loose hanging ends around the outside of the bun to add apparent volume.❌ I have flyaways everywhereApply a tiny amount of pomade or edge gel to the back of one hand, then lightly smooth over the bun and hairline. Don't apply directly from the container — you'll get too much. Finish with a light mist of hairspray held at arm's length.Products RaDona Recommends for the Perfect Bun
💜Essential #1Texturizing Spray (Pre-Style)The single most important messy bun product. Applied to dry hair before styling, it creates the grip that keeps any bun in place for 8+ hours. This is what separates buns that hold from buns that fall.★★★★★ 4.8 · Apply before every bunShop Amazon →🌸Essential #2Spiral / Snag-Free Hair ElasticsRegular rubber elastics crease and break hair with repeated use. Spiral or fabric-covered elastics hold just as firmly without the damage. Worth switching permanently.★★★★½ 4.7 · Multipack recommendedShop Amazon →⭐Essential #3Bobby Pins (Matched to Hair Colour)Colour-matched pins disappear into the hair. Use two crossed in an X pattern — this holds three times as much as a single straight pin. A 100-pack is not too many.★★★★★ 4.9 · Always have more than you thinkShop Amazon →✨FinishLight-Hold Flexible HairsprayOne pass from 14 inches away after the bun is set. Seals flyaways and locks the shape without stiffness. Use flexible hold, not strong hold — stiff spray makes the messy bun look messy for the wrong reasons.★★★★½ 4.7 · Final step every timeShop Amazon →🛍️Browse Amazon Store →All Products in One Place — RaDona's Amazon StorefrontTexturizing sprays, elastics, bobby pins, and hairspray — every product tested in RaDona's Utah salon and organized by hair type and concern.📩Get New Tutorials in Your InboxJoin RaDona's email list — new step-by-step tutorials, product picks, and hairstyle guides delivered free.Join the Email List →All Tutorials →More Tutorials & DIY GuidesFrench braid, Dutch braid, wavy hair, curly hair — every technique guide in one place.🔗 More from Boys & Girls Hairstyles🏠 boysandgirlshairstyles.com — Home👧🌿Kids & FamilyBraids · School · Toddlers✂️Women by Age40s · 50s · 60s · 70s🌸Tutorials & DIYBraids · Cuts · Updos⭐Occasion StylesWeddings · Sports · PromHair Care & ShopProducts · Tips · Amazon▶ Subscribe on YouTube — Free 180K+ subscribers · New videos every week
